Look inside

Every time that we pass trought the situations that we did not expect or that are not pleasant for us we try to find out which is their cause, so that we make big efforts to look for the reasson of this that troubles us.

Everything has a “Why” and it is common that we look for it externally, in all what we see around and it is shown to us like evident because this requires less time and dedication from our side.

That is the way we blame other people and circumstances about something that maybe has nothing to do with the fact which worries us or even if there is any relation between them this is not so close as it seems to be and we let this idea to be installed in our beliefs with conviction.

Nevertheless, few times we take the time to think about the influence we have in all that happens to us because it is more probable that instead of being an external reason, the causative of this one that we are passing now is any other own circumstance.

However to look inside it is not that easy as it means to be self-critical and our own judges and maybe to realize that we are more responsible of our circumstances than we thought.

This requires courage and willpower, to dismiss the obvious things and closing the eyes to the exterior to avoid any distractions, to be able to do an internal exam that helps us to find the real root of our problema because we only can act on this, in order to change it and to make sure that will never cause us discomfort.

So that, we should not waste the time looking for external guiltiies but internal reasons that we were not aware of and which were anonymously generating the confusion that prevents us from overcoming what comes without warn.