Sentimental balance

There are moments in our life that we experience situations that cause totally opposed and contrary feelings at the same time.

In one hand, there is something that makes us to be happy, excited and with eagerness, it is hard to describe this emotion that makes us feel like floating and there is nothing that can spoil it.

And on the other hand, suddenly, it happens something that causes stress,indignation and impotence, something that can prevail the well-being we were having, to overshadow it.

Let´s say that each situation has a side of our sentimental balance and the emotions that they bring, exert all their influence to bend the balance in its favor.

This makes us to think about what is really causing this feelings and even more, it makes us to consider which of both situations is more important and so that, which emotion will prevail to the other.

It is like an internal fight between opposed strengths, like the clouds that want to hide the immense sun which is shining, as one is giving light to us and the other one darkness.

And although we can understand them, it seems to be something that we cannot decide or control and we just feel how one of them is stronger and more dominant than the opposite.

If the one that dominates is this one that brings us good feelings, despite of the other insists, our mood is going to be optimistic and happy, and it will help us to face better the unwanted situation.

On the contrary, if the dominant is this one that brings out the worst of ourselves, we have to make a bigger effort for it not to turn off the light that was shining and we should think that everything which is bad has something we can learn and gives the opportunity to find something to improve.

And so, once again , the relativity plays an important role in how do we feel, as the way we perceive each of these situations is going to depend basically on itself but also in great measure on the other situation that makes counterweight in the balance.