Choosing attitude

When we have to choose between two alternatives, the probability of being right or being wrong with our choice is going to depend more about the attitude we have once the decision is made, than about the deliberation we do previously.

Then we make an analysis to evaluate both options and to determine which one is more interesting and beneficial for us, and so, we can get the conclusion that A seems to be more favourable than B or the opposite.

In fact, until the decision is made and we experiment it, we do not know if it was the best or not, because, it is when we start to live it when we really discover the consequences that it entails.

And, as we chose it because it prevailed to the other, we attempt to convince us about its superiority and we try to justify the results, even when sometimes they are not what we expected or how we expected and despite of that, we have to be consistent with our decision.

So that, we should not have to effort to find those reasons that made us to choose it, they should be inherent, because if not, we should consider that it just depends on us and our attitude that this we have chosen is at the end the best.

We will never know if the other option was worst or if on the contrary it was the right one, so that, this should not be so important for us because it is something that we just can speculate.

In conclusion, when choosing, let´s take this in which we are going to put our best attitude, this for what we are willing to give everything from us and doing so, we will get not just the advantages that made us to choose this option, but also many others that we did not expect.